Needy Woman, Greedy Woman

Why is that men can be bastards and women must wear pearls and smile?    -Lynn Hecht Schafen

think of women; their needs and their desires. it is said that possible for ocean to be dived but not that of a woman's heart. Man see beauty in them. maybe a little far ahead is companionship. some man sees woman as a relation or acquaintance that is there to comfort us. feed us with love. more of a feeling-spewing-delicate machine.

but who see them more than that. the social structure of almost every culture sees woman as birth device and not more than that. rights and reserves for woman is less likely to be discussed in presence of intellectual men. no matter how intelligent or successful man is, he possess an ego to over rule a woman.


it is  pre-texted, pre-determined mentality to see woman as inferior to man.

1.  there is no 'rule' in religion saying that, a woman can be married more than once at a time.
2.  it is okay for a guy to have mistress but not for a woman.
3.  cigarettes and alcohol is okay for man, but when woman takes them, we have the inner judgmental selves that tells us "Stay away from that bitch".

not to say there are no man seeing woman as soul companion, but there existence of man respecting a woman not more than a sex machine. chauvinism to the pinnacle. most modern culture though it is matured, simple manners to view perspective in equality is still a failure.

is gender equality is too much to ask for?