Have you seen a Tamil/Hindi (Indian Cinema) movies in which the love is so intense? The guy will 'hunt' for the perfect love - no matter of the girl want it or not? Ever come across a movie that the love talks are incomparable to practical world? Try gaze trough these scenarios (herein i name the 'romantic' guy as Romeo and the girl as Juliet):
- Romeo will stumble upon Juliet in market, mall, wedding (or other auspicious occasions) or public places (even traffic stands!) and at that one split moment, he will knew that his Juliet.
- Romeo will tail Juliet and try to do all the best he can to impress here in spite of hi regular duties to work or family. and eventually Juliet WILL fall for him.
- Romeo would be a thug/irresponsible youngster whom good with romantic talks (ex : I would do anything on this world to love you as much as this universe weight) , pickup lines and sweet talks. And predictably Juliet will fall for him, without thinking about family and other responsibilities.
Familiar? the point is people make these sort of movies too much till most of us tend to get wrong idea about Romance and Love (and don't even get me started with Love-at-first-sight!). Love nowadays does not more feel divine (generally speaking) or sweet. It is more filmy and to fictitious with all the bragging and attention craving that these modern teenagers would opt for. It is like the movies taught them on "How To Spoil The Sanctity of Love Within a Moment You Spot a Pretty Smokin' Girl?'. Too overwhelming thou.
It is wrong to say pure Love doesnt exist. But it is even wrong to claim all the petty affection that one is having (weather guy or girl) is The Pure Love. Love should evolve. Love shouldn't sprout out from thin air. Love should be felt by both parties. Love shouldn't be forced or convinced onto your eye candy. Love must be subjective and personal to one, not too cinematic for reasons. We could see these kind of 'extravagant' love everywhere.
All im saying is there are existence of The Perfect Romance. But often people get it mixed up with The Cinematic Love. Teenagers especially. Some urge make them to quickly find for fling just to make positive remarks on their social statuses. Big accusations but we can know youngsters nowadays do behave like that. find love that is genuine and 'feel-able' by both parties. dont just make a false attempt that doesnt connect any two.
and to real lovers out there, i dedicate these awesome songs to you all! enjoy and spread more love (of course real ones!) everywhere :D
i ll say, i agree with ur opinion. bcz even i have witnessed the "Cinematic Love." i feel ppl especially the youngsters easily influenced by the films and they think that is reality....
ReplyDeleteThank you for spending time here! i feel there are people who too bonded with cinema fiction too much.
Deleteanyways do read my blog ;D thnx!