Man 101 - You Man Enough?

"A proud man is always looking down on things and people, and, of course, as long as you're looking down, you can't see something that's above you "

-CS Lewis

Pride - Lion with a mane; wolf with vengeance

It is an intriguing question . ever know some guy who just never let go his views? or maybe, some guy who belief in something so strong that you cant manipulate them? or even some man who just stubborn about their perspective? familiar? most of the things that i've just asked are well-identifiable in a man.The Great Myth says : Guys are Alike. well ladies, get to know that is wrong. guys are not the same. we are individually unique. probably due to the urge of being different from others, guys do think differently from one another. but the similarities is, guys easily understand why each of them differ in such way. confused?

It is easy for a guy to understand another guy but anyhow, we may not think alike. to cut short, guys thinking and attitude could be categorized into three main CRITERIA

1. guys who belief in something so strong that they will follow it all the time.
2. guys who does not let go their statuses easily, and tend to behave & make decisions accordingly
3. guys who headstrong about their feeling, comfort and doesnt accept views

all the three stuffs sounds similar? well it were just mere descriptions of man mentality in which can be categorized into Ego, Pride and Principle. for those who still blur, let us look into what are Ego, Pride and Principle.  Ego is a sense of self esteem and self conscious in a way that limited to own need and perspective (CRITERIA #3). Pride is a feeling of having pleasure, or proud of being oneself due to possessing some perspectives or qualities (CRITERIA #2). and finally, a guy with principle means guys with rules or belief that governs one behavior and root of reasoning (CRITERIA #1). each guy have these three things in them. just the matter of the perfect blend of ego, pride and principle that differs in each one of them.

this is why woman's thinking is different. they are more of  'pushover'(or easily influenced. esp of beliefs and views; no offence ladies!) and their behavior are more to the way they were brought up. from my observation, woman are less egoistic, less prideful and possess less principles than man. there is a urge in every male's head to become superior than another and the necessity to be different in views.

its less likely to see man easily being manipulated by words and views (well, not material wise) as they have strong 'manly-opinions' about how things are going around them. you can try this concept onto any man and still fits into those 3 main criteria. try it and leave a comment!