CHOOSING CIVILITY

Some statistic studies show that 97% of us think that rudeness and bad behaviour is serious national problem but at the same time, 80% of us think that we are not rude. Part of the norm is, we blame everyone imaginable just to weight their shoulder with blame of such issues.
But down within, ask yourselves; are you rude?

Well, try answering these questions:
· Are you chronically late?
· Have you typed a mail or chat while talking on the phone?
· Have you interrupted face-to-face conversation for non-urgent cell phone call?
· Have you let your pet to ‘relieve’ itself on your neighbour’s lawn?
· Have you stolen someone else’s parking lot when you know it theirs?
· Have you taken someones possession without permission when they are not there?
· Have you scolded/annoyed anyone without valid reason and for your own relieve?
· Have you ever ignore a person when he/she talking to you?


These are only some question that can classify us as RUDE. But to think naturally, we can come up with more lists of behaviours that we think rude. There is no such thing as level or degree of rudeness. If you are rude then you really are.

But what is the problem of being rude? Try asking yourself if someone replies or act in rude way to you, how do you feel? Its a matter of giving and taking respect and mannerism that can question your upbringing by your family. Sounds like it is a serious matter, don’t they?
We tried to civilise by revolutionising things around us. And that, also includes our level of civility and mannerism that shines on our behaviour and personality.

So people try to be polite!!!
cheerio

today is special day for family of MARSYA-IW ' 09
will be having post mortem session in the evening.
truely a fun and nerve recking experience, where i have learnt a lot.

~~~ left bottom cock wise - khir, me, arai, farahin, hamidah, raimi, qusyer~~~

i would like say thanks to al contributors and committes members who help us alot in turning the event a succesfu and fun one.

hehehehhe...

cheerio people!!

http://marsyaiw09.blogspot.com/

respect and appreciate!!

my detailed drawing of saraswathy. the in-depth personification of arts, wisdom, purity and education. truly a beautiful thing to share..
-value education and arts as your treasure and respect as your teacher-

divine wisdom

kalai vaalgha, malar vaalgha, kalaimalarin thiruvalgha, pulavar thiru naavi porunthum tamil valgha, kanni tamilodu kalantha natchami valgha, annai kalaivani vanna peyar valgha valghave.. -PORTRAY OF SARASWATHY IN TAMIL-
(hail performing arts, hail blooming lotus, all hail the Lotus of All Arts, hail the One who being always illustrated by poets, hail the Divine which represent the virgin Tamil, all hail motther of all arts for eternity..

practise of polytheism in certain religion (hinduism to be spesific) can be confusing and tedious. however, i could not reason myself why it is that way. yeah, maybe its true but thinking from the positive side of it, maybe there are hidden messages for us to ponder behing the idea of polytheism.

hinduism is nothing more than simple symbolism of almighty's power. the thing that people use to conclude about hinduism is, there is no concept of 'oneness'. but the truth is, there is! the universe and the divine is being captured in most illustrous way to leave an sense of ambuigity to its worshippers. hinduism uses the concept of feminine power (which dominates the world) as the superior and 'motherly' to all aspects.

one fine example in hinduism is the goddess of education and arts. S.A.R.A.S.W.A.T.H.Y. i would say, She is one of the perfect personification of wonder and divinity of arts and education.

• WHITE SAREE - purity of education and arts, putting them in imaginably in high position
• VEENAI - showing that education and arts are 'easy to travel' as music do.
• SWAN(hamsa) - symbol of intelligence and beauty
• PEACOCK - symbol of beauty and pride
• WHITE LOTUS - notify that education and arts are worth 'worshipped' and respected.
• BEADS & BOOKLET - self devotion to education

QUICK UPDATE

mode : so far busy and dont care

attitude : nerd

lesson learnt : think positively, no revenge

work load : head of department of two different event at same time

academic : terribly lagging

achievement : professinal communication skills presentation

social network : pretty unatttached

bad things done : -secret-

wishlist : badly wants a professional camera

outing : vinayagar chathurthi- sitiawan & ayer tawar

future outing : steam boat :)

upcoming plan near future : buy a new phone.. ring!!

ramadhan al mubarak

already moving into ramadhan..
month of forgiveness and self control
all of us should get something from it
make some resolution and fulfill it
mine would be :

• wake up early morning everyday
• pray and meditate
• eat less
• no 'ehem' things

hehehehe.. to all of my friends.. happy fasting!!

its not hard to be controlled by your own self. u need determination and effort, which may sound easy but only the 'chosen ones' would get it through! hahahaha...

with a friendly reminder of 'determination can even shift your future', i insist all of us make some resolution to enhance our living on this B.E.A.U.T.I.F.U.L world..

cheerio!!

omg

hah! nearly forgotten that i have a blog..
was too busy with event
wat event?? MARSYA-IW '09!!
was great event that taught me lot of stuff.. lot of friends and lot of experience..
through this event i realised i perform better in tension and pressure.. y is that?

i got my own nickname too!! hahahaha (not to be entioned)..

this event was collaboration between Sekreteriat Rakan Muda & Residential College Student Unit (SRM-UTP & RCSU). two huge student body sharing shoulder weih..
hahahaha

in conjunction with independence day and celebrating malaysian culture, this event is organized in UTP. great event, lot of work but sweet memories..

visit the blog everyone : MARSYA-IW '09 UTP

cheerio!!

is everybody fine?

ahhhh...

after a long, busy break i have started scribbling the page again. the psycho scribbler.

i certainly have to talk about a kollywood movie that i recently watched. released on march sixth this year and casted by choc boy madhavan and sweet small neetu chandra, Yavarum Nalam certainly a psychological thriller i would say. filmed together in hindi version, 13b, this movie certainly set a new trend of indian film making.

one of the funny thing about the title is, how irony the title can be compare to the story line. and one creepy fact about the movie is every scene has to do with number 13; including the numerology of the title, YAVARUM NALAM (check for own: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Numerology#Alphabetic_systems )

a movie that should be well respected for its casts performance in the movie who gave natural and convincing suspense throughout the movie.

the story evolves in an apartment newly bought by manohar(madhavan) but soon after he started to get 'disturbances' from unknown mystical and paranormal entities who would like to convey some messages.

[[~~yavarum nalam trailer : http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Jvv3WXe2r2k ~~]]

suspense, plot, screenplay, symbolism and screening techniques are well developed in the movie revealing the true story behind the horror spine chilling fable of manohars family story. love do blossom between priya( neetu chandra) and manohar (so do the family bonding in big family) in some part of the horror scenes (without a miss in tamil cinema industry) to give a more filial feeling to the movie.

the tension and suspense of the true story well hidden behind short clips of the movie that makes audience to have thrill in guessing the plot. and believe me, its a twist at the end that going to make you to say "i guessed it earlier..

almost nothing touches the typical tamil cinema norms, it a job well done by director, vikram k. kumar. its must watch movie that gave new trend in film-making industry.

my heart

having fun and using my holidays to the max!

hahahaha..

but bore dome strikes some time..

eherrmmm....

well.. have to tell you about one movie that stayed in my mind for some time. ayan. a complete romance-conflict kollywood movie acted but surya , tamanna bhatia, prabhu, karunass and few other supporting actor/actress who gave impressive impact to the movie.

what a beauty...

movie about a well-educated smuggler who repent of his misconduct and getting back to the right track. between that sweet love bloom between yamuna(tamanna) and deva(surya).

particularly one song really attracted me. nenje nenje song sang by harish ragavendhra and my fav; mahathi. the lyrics sings :

F :Nenjae nenjae nee engae?Naanum angae ..En vaazhvum angaeAnbae anbae naan

ingaeDhegam ingaeEn jeevan engae?

M :En nathiyae en kan munnae vatri ponaaiPaal mazhaiyaaga ennai thedi mannil vanthaaiEn

thaagankal thirkaamal, kadalil yehn serkiraai?

F :Nenjae nenjae nee ingaeNaanum angae ..En vaazhvum angae

M :Kannae.. en kannae naan unnai kaanaamalvaanum mannum poiyaaga kandaene

F :Anbae per anbaeNaan unnai seraamalaavi en aavi naan itru ponaene

M :Veyil kaalam vanthaal thaan neerum thaenaaghumpirivondru kondraal thaan kaadhal rusi aagum

F :Un paarvai padum thuramEn vaazhvin uyir meelumUn muchchu padum neramEn thegham

analaagum

M :Nenjae nenjae nee engae?Naanum angae ..En vaazhvum angaeAnbae anbae naan

ingaeDhegam ingaeEn jeevan engae?

F :Kalvaa.. Hey kalvaa nee kaadhal seiyaamalKannum en nenjum en pechchai kekkathae

M :Kaadhal nee kaadhal athu pattu pogathaeKaatru nam bhoomi thanai vittu pogathae

F :Aaghayam idam maari ponaal poghaddumAanal nee manam maari poghakudathae

M :Hey manjal thaamaraiyeEn uchcha tharagaiyaeKadal mannai ponaalumNam maarathae

F :Nenjae nenjae nee engae?Naanum angae ..En vaazhvum angae

M :Anbae anbae naan ingaeDhegam ingaeEn jeevan engae?
En nathiyae en kan munnae vatri ponaaiPaal mazhaiyaaga ennai thedi mannil vanthaai

F :Un thaagankal thiraamal mazhaiyai vaikirai....

very beautiful song...

watch the movie and other song clips.. equally as good as this one.

clip? click on : http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ULmNV7Jf-Gs

for ayan trailer : http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rfGuFxEFjHo

i love u after 5 seconds seeing u!

bullshit! hell crap! holy cow! junk! matter of a penny la...
if u think as mentioned above, do proceed :

believe in love at first sight?
not convincing enough for me untill i can say the first feeling that comes after seeing someone is not more than lust..

y? what makes people to get attracted to each other and makes them to say that is love?
do naughty hormones in our body produces pheromone (sort of viagra) that make us excited to see opposite sex (or sometym own gender!)
to some extent we do have some expectation or imaginative characters that we will expect in our life partner..

all these things might probably be the trigger for you to fall for someone once at first sight. things will go crazy if they are the type of person that we actually imagined of. everything that they do matters and will be sweet, no concern on right or wrong. so if people have such expectation and experience they will say it is love in the first sight.
in such first sight meeting, where do monkey feeling of love comes in? is this situation only for teenagers? we never heard of oldies sayin that..
if you say love is care, then where do care comes once after meeting someone say.. just after 5 seconds?

to say more we can go long and long to rationalise that love at first sight isnt wise.. but to come to think about it, it is our complicated feelings. especially teenage monkey feelings.. what is the real feeling of love? love in first sight?


".... slow heaty breeze was disturbing but never when she showed up with her lame blue top and kharki pants. her hair was going in every direction imaginable making me to feel that she is the only woman that is outstanding over there. nothing much she put on her face but yet she shined as a star do. warm cuddly smile welcomes everyone that she sees (and me too).
she came near and said 'how are you?'. i was spellbounded!" - anonymous

deep in your heart there would be a dream person that u want to spend time with. and if such sweetie-to-your heart comes, u cant deny it; u will fell for him/her. it is messy and rooted from NOwhere. but after you experience it, it is NOWhere.. love at first sight..

[kylie minogue also experience love at first sight ]
[check it out: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rMWrFTRaNmA ]

sometyms things are worth experiencing rather than arguing about it. i am not sure whether i do believe in love at first meeting or not, but i do definitely believe in LOVE..
languange of intimacy spoken by Adam and Eve for eternity...